There are times when I chat with my friends about other friends (ok, B***H! But u see, we dont talk about how BAD the person is...we talk about general things...ok...B***h is the right word...)...
And sometimes a sad story about these people comes into the conversation...
Those who know me well enough will know that I'd say "Well, he/she gotta step out of it him/herself...It's something no one can help...If he/she wants to stay in that ditch...No one can pull him/her out...Really..."
I guess the best friends can do is just to be around...be there for him/her to cry on, be there to laugh with, be there to s***e with, etc...
At the end of the day, it's very very much up to the person him/herself...
The moment of truth came when I wasnt very 'up' the other day...
This friend of mine told me 'well, you gotta get out of it yourself...no one can help you...'
1) I'm pretty sure this friend of mine do not know that this always come to my mind when I hear sad story...
2) And I'm sure this friend of mine really dont know me well enough...
Haha! It's certainly sounded different when this is told to me at the point in time...Part irritated, part laughing at myself...
Well said, my friend!
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